Friday, August 8, 2014
Wednesday, August 6, 2014
Maternal Love
Sunday, August 3, 2014
Brain vs. Heart
"Never make permanent decisions on temporary feelings." -Wiz Kalifa
Who do you think is saying the quote above? The mind, or the heart?
This is probably one of the most popular questions in terms of falling in love; follow your brain? Or follow your heart? I say, follow your heart, but take your brain with you. When you fall in love, make sure you set up some boundaries; don't give it all away or else you'll end yourself getting killed on the inside. Yes, everybody feels the need to give their all to the person they appreciate, believe me, I, too, am a victim of that. That's the heart acting.
There's always this internal conflict between your heart and mind as to whether you'll do a certain thing or not.
I think what we all need is control. Limits. Boundaries. Don't give your all to something that doesn't seem permanent or you'll end up empty handed. It's okay to love. LIVE. LOVE. LAUGH. But be careful of your decisions. Think before you act and learn to accept the consequences of your fall.
Who do you think is saying the quote above? The mind, or the heart?
This is probably one of the most popular questions in terms of falling in love; follow your brain? Or follow your heart? I say, follow your heart, but take your brain with you. When you fall in love, make sure you set up some boundaries; don't give it all away or else you'll end yourself getting killed on the inside. Yes, everybody feels the need to give their all to the person they appreciate, believe me, I, too, am a victim of that. That's the heart acting.
There's always this internal conflict between your heart and mind as to whether you'll do a certain thing or not.
I think what we all need is control. Limits. Boundaries. Don't give your all to something that doesn't seem permanent or you'll end up empty handed. It's okay to love. LIVE. LOVE. LAUGH. But be careful of your decisions. Think before you act and learn to accept the consequences of your fall.
Broken Hearts
"I don't think anyone can give you advice when you've got a broken heart." Britney Spears.
True that. No matter what people tell you or no matter how good their advice may be when your heart is broken, there's nothing that could make us better than time and space. Nothing hurts more than being disappointed by the person you thought would never hurt you. Talk about the deception there.
My advice is to not let it bring you down. I'm a firm believer than everything happens for a reason. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, focus on the positive things in life rather than think it is the end of the world. Break free and move on. I know these two words are very hard to do, yet, I'm sure you'll achieve it in your own time. In the mean time, all you could do is hold on and let pain run its course.
Be angry, be sad, cry if you want, express yourself in whatever way you want but I want you to know that you are loved. Yes, maybe your boyfriend or crush doesn't feel the same way you do anymore, but think about your friends and family. There are people out there who love you, and that is something worth remembering.
So don't you dare say nobody loves you. Because you are, so am I.
Mend your heart, mend it with the help of those who love you and learn to mend it yourself. Hold on, pain ends.
True that. No matter what people tell you or no matter how good their advice may be when your heart is broken, there's nothing that could make us better than time and space. Nothing hurts more than being disappointed by the person you thought would never hurt you. Talk about the deception there.
My advice is to not let it bring you down. I'm a firm believer than everything happens for a reason. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, focus on the positive things in life rather than think it is the end of the world. Break free and move on. I know these two words are very hard to do, yet, I'm sure you'll achieve it in your own time. In the mean time, all you could do is hold on and let pain run its course.
Be angry, be sad, cry if you want, express yourself in whatever way you want but I want you to know that you are loved. Yes, maybe your boyfriend or crush doesn't feel the same way you do anymore, but think about your friends and family. There are people out there who love you, and that is something worth remembering.
So don't you dare say nobody loves you. Because you are, so am I.
Mend your heart, mend it with the help of those who love you and learn to mend it yourself. Hold on, pain ends.
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