Friday, August 8, 2014
Wednesday, August 6, 2014
Maternal Love
Sunday, August 3, 2014
Brain vs. Heart
"Never make permanent decisions on temporary feelings." -Wiz Kalifa
Who do you think is saying the quote above? The mind, or the heart?
This is probably one of the most popular questions in terms of falling in love; follow your brain? Or follow your heart? I say, follow your heart, but take your brain with you. When you fall in love, make sure you set up some boundaries; don't give it all away or else you'll end yourself getting killed on the inside. Yes, everybody feels the need to give their all to the person they appreciate, believe me, I, too, am a victim of that. That's the heart acting.
There's always this internal conflict between your heart and mind as to whether you'll do a certain thing or not.
I think what we all need is control. Limits. Boundaries. Don't give your all to something that doesn't seem permanent or you'll end up empty handed. It's okay to love. LIVE. LOVE. LAUGH. But be careful of your decisions. Think before you act and learn to accept the consequences of your fall.
Who do you think is saying the quote above? The mind, or the heart?
This is probably one of the most popular questions in terms of falling in love; follow your brain? Or follow your heart? I say, follow your heart, but take your brain with you. When you fall in love, make sure you set up some boundaries; don't give it all away or else you'll end yourself getting killed on the inside. Yes, everybody feels the need to give their all to the person they appreciate, believe me, I, too, am a victim of that. That's the heart acting.
There's always this internal conflict between your heart and mind as to whether you'll do a certain thing or not.
I think what we all need is control. Limits. Boundaries. Don't give your all to something that doesn't seem permanent or you'll end up empty handed. It's okay to love. LIVE. LOVE. LAUGH. But be careful of your decisions. Think before you act and learn to accept the consequences of your fall.
Broken Hearts
"I don't think anyone can give you advice when you've got a broken heart." Britney Spears.
True that. No matter what people tell you or no matter how good their advice may be when your heart is broken, there's nothing that could make us better than time and space. Nothing hurts more than being disappointed by the person you thought would never hurt you. Talk about the deception there.
My advice is to not let it bring you down. I'm a firm believer than everything happens for a reason. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, focus on the positive things in life rather than think it is the end of the world. Break free and move on. I know these two words are very hard to do, yet, I'm sure you'll achieve it in your own time. In the mean time, all you could do is hold on and let pain run its course.
Be angry, be sad, cry if you want, express yourself in whatever way you want but I want you to know that you are loved. Yes, maybe your boyfriend or crush doesn't feel the same way you do anymore, but think about your friends and family. There are people out there who love you, and that is something worth remembering.
So don't you dare say nobody loves you. Because you are, so am I.
Mend your heart, mend it with the help of those who love you and learn to mend it yourself. Hold on, pain ends.
True that. No matter what people tell you or no matter how good their advice may be when your heart is broken, there's nothing that could make us better than time and space. Nothing hurts more than being disappointed by the person you thought would never hurt you. Talk about the deception there.
My advice is to not let it bring you down. I'm a firm believer than everything happens for a reason. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, focus on the positive things in life rather than think it is the end of the world. Break free and move on. I know these two words are very hard to do, yet, I'm sure you'll achieve it in your own time. In the mean time, all you could do is hold on and let pain run its course.
Be angry, be sad, cry if you want, express yourself in whatever way you want but I want you to know that you are loved. Yes, maybe your boyfriend or crush doesn't feel the same way you do anymore, but think about your friends and family. There are people out there who love you, and that is something worth remembering.
So don't you dare say nobody loves you. Because you are, so am I.
Mend your heart, mend it with the help of those who love you and learn to mend it yourself. Hold on, pain ends.
Saturday, July 5, 2014
Young Love
Everyone knows that we all have someone we love. I know it may sound cliché or whatever, but I just want to let people know how it feels like, especially people my age. Things are quite getting out of hand when it comes to love, you know? You can't control the series of emotions that seep from you or your feelings towards the opposite gender. It all comes unexpectedly or either involuntarily.
For a fourteen year old, I would never have thought I would be writing things like this. Love, break-ups, and how it even feels like to be in love. I know we are too young, too immature, too irresponsible for this stuff, but we can't avoid it. Even if we get a lot of sermons from other people about it, we just can't avoid it. No matter how big or small the universe is, we will eventually end up being in love with somebody.
Some people think that love is disgusting, too mushy, corny, or whatever. But it's not. It's either sweet, romantic, passionate, or even cute, as some people would describe it. But love, despite it's sweetness, also has it's bitterness. It can cause grave heartaches to those who get left behind or ignored by their loved ones.
We can't avoid to get hurt. In fact, we chose to get hurt. Why? Because we never thought about the outcome of a relationship. Teenagers, like us, either want to experience love or they're just too excited about the thought of it, right? We tend to do things that is out of our league. We're too adventurous, too carefree, and too anxious.
Have you ever heard of those things in fairy tales? Wherein the prince and the princess lived happily ever after? Truth is, happily ever afters are just lies. We don't live happily ever after, we live for our own eternity.
Love is one heck of a ride! It doesn't stop when we want it to, It just keeps moving forward. All we have to do is to keep on going, never look back, and enjoy it. This is a once in a lifetime opportunity that we might not experience on our next life. So why hate when you could just love everybody around you?
For a fourteen year old, I would never have thought I would be writing things like this. Love, break-ups, and how it even feels like to be in love. I know we are too young, too immature, too irresponsible for this stuff, but we can't avoid it. Even if we get a lot of sermons from other people about it, we just can't avoid it. No matter how big or small the universe is, we will eventually end up being in love with somebody.
Some people think that love is disgusting, too mushy, corny, or whatever. But it's not. It's either sweet, romantic, passionate, or even cute, as some people would describe it. But love, despite it's sweetness, also has it's bitterness. It can cause grave heartaches to those who get left behind or ignored by their loved ones.
We can't avoid to get hurt. In fact, we chose to get hurt. Why? Because we never thought about the outcome of a relationship. Teenagers, like us, either want to experience love or they're just too excited about the thought of it, right? We tend to do things that is out of our league. We're too adventurous, too carefree, and too anxious.
Have you ever heard of those things in fairy tales? Wherein the prince and the princess lived happily ever after? Truth is, happily ever afters are just lies. We don't live happily ever after, we live for our own eternity.
Love is one heck of a ride! It doesn't stop when we want it to, It just keeps moving forward. All we have to do is to keep on going, never look back, and enjoy it. This is a once in a lifetime opportunity that we might not experience on our next life. So why hate when you could just love everybody around you?
Sunday, June 29, 2014
The End of Love
So you've found yourself alone again. The one you once cared for has moved on, found someone new, and left you behind. And everyday you keep repeating your heartbreak mantra, "Why did he leave me? What did I do wrong?" as you succumb to hysterical crying fits. You're officially a victim of a broken heart.
Let's face it, people nowadays are jerks, douche bags, or whatever y'all call the (No hard feelings). But the problem with us is that we don't think twice before we let ourselves fall for someone. We often look at the physical features and not the personality. Truth is, it's the inside that matters and not the outside.
So what if he's handsome, cute, hot, or whatever? Does that mean he has the guts to do everything for you? To love you like you've never been loved before? You don't need a man to make you feel like a real woman. If he can't see what's beautiful and special about you, what kind of man is he? Not someone worth your time, it's clear. Not someone who deserves your love either.
Funny how we feel so hedonistically wonderful when we are in love and end up feeling gruesomely dreadful after a break up. Nevertheless, it's a risk that we all have to take. While there's a promise in loving, there are no guarantees. So live and love. Get hurt and love again. After all, there is no joy without pain and no bliss without hell.
Sources: examiner, ezinearticle
Let's face it, people nowadays are jerks, douche bags, or whatever y'all call the (No hard feelings). But the problem with us is that we don't think twice before we let ourselves fall for someone. We often look at the physical features and not the personality. Truth is, it's the inside that matters and not the outside.
So what if he's handsome, cute, hot, or whatever? Does that mean he has the guts to do everything for you? To love you like you've never been loved before? You don't need a man to make you feel like a real woman. If he can't see what's beautiful and special about you, what kind of man is he? Not someone worth your time, it's clear. Not someone who deserves your love either.
Funny how we feel so hedonistically wonderful when we are in love and end up feeling gruesomely dreadful after a break up. Nevertheless, it's a risk that we all have to take. While there's a promise in loving, there are no guarantees. So live and love. Get hurt and love again. After all, there is no joy without pain and no bliss without hell.
Sources: examiner, ezinearticle
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